We have recently been mentoring a couple who asked for mentoring when they were thinking of getting engaged. We thought it was tremendously mature on their part to ask and we were honored to mentor them. We used the mentoring book “Before ‘I Do'” by Jason Krafsky.
Eventually, they jointly decided that they were not going to pursue an engagement and marriage. It was a sad thing but based on all they prayerfully discovered about themselves, it was the wisest decision for them to make. I hope more couples really think through their future marriage before getting caught up in all of the emotions of getting engaged.