My wife and I are in the midst of remodeling/redecorating a sizable portion of our home we just moved into a couple of weeks ago. On some blog I read recently there was an article that discussed whether remodeling would draw a couple together.
I think in a way it can although it certainly does add some subjects for possible conflicts. You can use the time to learn more about each other’s preferences and if you slow down enough to listen, you may even learn the why behind some of those preferences.
Hopefully over the years of looking back there will be enjoyment of the hardwork. I still have some good memories of our last major overhaul from 1995.