Just happened across this article by a writer who was reflecting on her mistakes in marriage. I realized that I make some of the same mistakes.

I liked her encouragement to touch more, hug more, and kiss more. I also like her encouragement to focus on the huge pluses of her spouse instead of the imperfections.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/gretchen-rubin/5-mistakes-i-make-in-my-m_b_216701.html