During our separation, I went on a search for resources to help me hang in there. I found alot that were life changing, and literally a lifeline of hope at a very dark time for me. Since then I have found even more resources for help. I want this to be a place where anyone who is struggling, or who knows someone who is struggling, can come to and quickly get help. There are many different flavors of resources, because different things work for different people at different times.
In conversation I also tend to share many resources. Often neither they nor I have the time to write them all down, or I am afraid that I will tell them something is a dot org when it really is a dot com.
Someday I may organize all of this into a website, but I think this is a good, fast way to start getting help out there.