I am involved at various times with men and women who are separated or divorced from their spouses against their wishes. They often have heartrending tales to share, and many unanswered questions. One of the most common statements I hear them make is “This just doesn’t make sense.” I have found, both through my own experience and the experience of others, that in many of these situations things just don’t make any sense. My main conclusion is that God said ” I hate divorce” for a reason. Marital breakdown and divorce just shatters something in people on either side of the situation.