As I work with couples I ponder what the tipping point is for people to click off and be done with their marriage. Usually, it’s one person to just give up and quit working on the marriage. Then the second spouse has to decide whether to continue to try or not. Sometimes they just seem to quit also, even after protesting that they don’t want a divorce. I am really puzzled how to inspire hope enough in either spouse to keep trying. I guess part of the secret is to be available when someone really seems ready to need someone to listen. It’s also letting people know there is so much help available and helping them to find it.