This is from Michael Smalley. Is It Good Enough?
Here are the last lines in the article that really grabbed my attention.
So ask yourself how it’s going and then do something about it. Stop waiting for your spouse to change, do some changing on your own and see how that impacts your marriage. Why sit on the sideline when you can be in the game of becoming the kind of spouse you want to be married to.
Reminds me a lot of Dr. Phil in “Relationship Rescue.” His premise is that if you want a different marriage start with changing yourself.