If you are separated or divorced, I am so sorry for your pain during this season. Thankfully we were only separated one year, but the holidays were extremely painful.
I thought this post by Kay Arthur offered a lot of encouragement if you are alone.
http://www.facebook.com/#!/notes/kay-arthur/its-christmas-eve-are-you-feeling-alone/475752831555
stubborn-pursuits.com 
Thanks for all your encouragement throughout the year. It is appreciated.
Merry Christmas and may God Bless you in the New Year!
Thanks so much for your encouragement. That means alot.
I join in the thanks. Your website continues to encourage me. It’s a God send.