Author Archives: RichWildman

Well, I am day late but Merry Christmas everyone. I hope my readers have all had a wonderful holiday, however, I know from experience that if you are separated from your spouse there is probably a lot of pain involved. … Continue reading →

As I ponder the allegations of Tiger Woods’ affairs I realize that but for the grace of God there go I. All sorts of pundits, both Christians and non-Christians, have opinions about “Why?”.  I really don’t know since I haven’t … Continue reading →

http://www.gosmalley.com/what-to-do-when-youre-truly-miserable-in-your-relationship I thought Michael’s theme of stick-to-it-ness  in marriage goes right along with our concept of Stubborn Pursuits. Similar message, said just a little different. I like his message.

This is a funny clip – just in case you think I deal with so many crumbling marriages that you thought I had lost any sense of humor. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VSkT5XykJzo&feature=player_embedded

My wife and I are so thankful that God reconciled our marriage. I admire long-term marriages that have survived the ups and downs through the years. I admire any marriage, no matter how long, that has survived a major crisis. Sometimes … Continue reading →

Over the last several years it seems like I have read and heard more debates between Christians about the circumstances in a marriage that might allow for a Biblical divorce than I have heard discussion of how to reconcile and … Continue reading →

I encounter various people along the way in distressed marriages desperately looking for answers. Often they wonder what I think about this or that situation. I am also involved in various message boards in conversations about marriage, I listen to … Continue reading →

I run across different situations where I am not sure what to say. I am aware of situations where one spouse or the other refuses to work on the marriage. Sometimes that spouse files for divorce, sometimes the other one … Continue reading →

I thought this was an excellent article in Redbook magazine about surviving an affair. http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/advice/surviving-an-affair I appreciated how the article shared how much rage and anger the betrayed spouse can feel, but also the determination of both parties to hang … Continue reading →

I am thankful that Sharon and I reconciled in December of 2004. I am thankful for the many great resources available to help couples who struggle. I am thankful that Jesus loves us through all the ups and downs of  … Continue reading →