Author Archives: sewildman

During our separation I was desperate to find helpful resources. One thing I discovered is that you can go on Google and put in words like “divorce”, “marriage”, “separation”, “reconciliation”, “Christian”, or even sentences such as “I want to save … Continue reading →

I have found The Sex-Starved Marriage by Michelle Weiner-Davis to be an excellent book to help both the higher- and lower-sex drive spouses to understand themselves, understand their spouses, and be inspired to work together to have a better marriage. … Continue reading →

I am involved at various times with men and women who are separated or divorced from their spouses against their wishes. They often have heartrending tales to share, and many unanswered questions. One of the most common statements I hear … Continue reading →

Steve Arterburn authored “Healing from Your Past”. One of the chapters is about forgiveness. Steve’s story is that he was divorced against his will. He does a good job discussing the practical aspects of forgiveness. One of his key points … Continue reading →

In the book of Revelation it talks about the saints overcoming satan with the blood of the Lamb and the word of their testimony. Testimonies are powerful in inspiring hope. One of the best sources of testimonies that I have … Continue reading →

Sometimes it helps me to listen to worship and sometimes I either don’t have my CD player or I’m bored with my CD’s. A couple of places I have found to listen to worship on the internet are http://www.integritymusic.com and … Continue reading →

In connection with the movie “Fireproof” there is a new website at http://www.fireproofmymarriage.com that has some awesome resources for marriage.

At times I ponder this whole concept of our culture moving away from monogamous lifetime marriage as the norm, to other lifestyles – cohabiting, gay marriage, multiple marriages and multiple divorces in a lifetime. It is easy to get on … Continue reading →

I just read an interesting article in “The Saturday Evening Post” July/August edition. The title was “Marriage Makeover: Reinventing Date Night”. The article talked about several studies of long-term couples where the goal was to see if adding novelty to … Continue reading →

I just watched the trailer for Fireproof The Movie at http://www.fireproofthemovie.com. The background words were “Fireproof: Never Leave Your Partner Behind.” This is a movie about saving a marriage from the same group that made the movie Facing the Giants. … Continue reading →