So often I hear a spouse who is separated even against their wishes, say something like “I am willing to work on our marriage if my spouse will.” That is great, but that may not be enough to save a marriage.

Those who really want to save their marriage will make a conscious choice to take a step of faith and continue to work on themselves along with their marriage even when their spouse is unwilling or pulling away. Faith is the conviction of things not seen – and it does take a lot of faith to continue to do your best to fulfill your vows when it appears your spouse isn’t. Ultimately though, such faith is pleasing to God.