Regardlesss of what kind of relationship you have with your spouse right now ask yourself what one small thing you could do today to express your love. Okay, now that you know what it is – do it!!!
Ideas
Kiss your spouse.
Compliment them.
Do a small chore for your spouse, without them asking. Maybe even something they normally do.
Write a short note, text, or email to your spouse.
Do one small thing that they have asked you to do and you haven’t gotten around to it.
Use your imagination, but do something.
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all those things, i did and still do ..
thank God, Im happy with my marriage, and im happy with life as a wife 🙂
That is awesome.