Author Archives: RichWildman

Overcoming Marriage

Great article about the truth that marriage can be tough but worth the struggle.  Reminds me of our own marriage. A key concept is that you can either have an overcoming marriage or be overcome. http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/sex_and_intimacy/the_overcoming_marriage.aspx

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Facebook and Your Marriage (K. Jason & Kelli Krafsky)

I just finished reading an awesome book entitled “Facebook and Your Marriage” by K. Jason and Kelli Krafsky. This is a fast read with a lot of practical tips about what Facebook is and how to use it, as well … Continue reading

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Anything is better than divorce lawyers and court!

During the low point of our separation, when we were basically not speaking or communicating except for the bare essentials of operating our farm business, addressing serious issues with our children, or meeting for marriage mediation, I kept telling myself … Continue reading

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Amazon’s Listmania

I am often looking for new ways to search for good marriage information. I just discovered that you can go to Amazon.com and search from the homepage for a word like marriage. Once it pulls up a list of suggestions … Continue reading

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Infidelity Recovery (Smart Marriages)

Here is a great list of resources at the Smart Marriages website to help recover from infidelity. Remember, Smart Marriages has both secular and Christian resources listed. http://smartmarriages.com/infidelity.resources.html

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Conciliation in Ohio

Conciliation is a process laid out in Ohio law to help divorcing couples reconcile. This is the best article that I have ever seen about it. http://www.hcmmlaw.com/blog/2009/01/03/the-conciliation-process-in-montgomery-county-ohio/

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Video Sample of Choosing Wisely Before You Divorce

As I’ve said before one video series I watched during our separation was “Choosing Wisely Before You Divorce.” It was very realistic about the pain and heartache that could come through a divorce and also gave some awesome testimonies of … Continue reading

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Your Emotions During Separation

During our separation I felt emotions more intensely than at almost any other time in my life. I would go from raging, to crying and back again in a very short time. Eventually I learned to pour out my heart … Continue reading

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The Private Language of Marriage

This came up as a random post on WordPress. I found it to be interesting about how long-term marriages have their own private language. http://realdelia.com/2010/07/12/the-private-language-of-marriage/

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Jesus

If you are a believer in Christ I cannot promise that your marriage will be saved, but based on the Word of God I can encourage you with many things. He will never leave you or forsake you. (Deuteronomy 31:8) … Continue reading

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