Author Archives: RichWildman

Focus on the Family: Divorce/Separation

Here is a link to a series of articles on divorce and separation from Focus on the Family. This section of the Focus website also has a lot of good information on various issues regarding marriage. http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/divorce_and_infidelity/divorce_and_separation.aspx

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Divorce Lawyers’ Guide to Staying Married (Wendy Jaffe)

Here is a YouTube clip of Wendy Jaffe who wrote “The Divorce Lawyers’ Guide to Staying Married.” I have read most of the book and I thought it gave many good insights. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nBmj2S2KtQ&NR=1&feature=fvwp

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Changing Your Marriage By Yourself

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g_tvtgKzyog&feature=related This is just one video of many that you can find at YouTube by Michelle Weiner-Davis of Divorce Busting. She makes a very compelling case that you can change your marriage by yourself.

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Tough Facts for the Separated

Early in our separation I learned some facts that were tough to accept, but once I started trusting God more, they became less of an impediment to my emotional and mental health. A.  Across most of the United States no-fault … Continue reading

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Three Choices in a Struggling Marriage

It appears to me that if a person is struggling and unhappy in their marriage they have three primary choices. A.  They can continue to act and respond towards their partner as they have been doing and continue to be … Continue reading

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Yes, Your Marriage Can Be Saved

I just finished reading “Yes, Your Marriage Can Be Saved” by Joe and Michelle Williams. These two really open up and share their lives and tell it like it is when it comes to marital reconciliation. They each have multiple … Continue reading

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How to Overcome Bitterness

I found this to be a great post by Gary Smalley. How To Overcome Bitterness

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It IS Possible

Read the blog and then the blog within the blog for new hope. http://www.the-generous-wife.com/2010/05/15/its-possible/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+50%2FITcV+%28Daily+Generous+Wife+Tips%29

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Surprises in Waiting

Excellent post by Jerome Daley. This really applies to marriages in crisis. I wish I had grabbed hold of  the concept  sooner during our separation. http://www.mynewsletterbuilder.com/email/newsletter/1410302051

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Giving Up Too Quickly

Over the last several years I have had conversations with quite a few men early in their marriage crises. A typical scenario has often been that when the wife says she is done with the marriage and the man first … Continue reading

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