Author Archives: RichWildman
Changing Your Marriage By Yourself
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g_tvtgKzyog&feature=related This is just one video of many that you can find at YouTube by Michelle Weiner-Davis of Divorce Busting. She makes a very compelling case that you can change your marriage by yourself.
Tough Facts for the Separated
Early in our separation I learned some facts that were tough to accept, but once I started trusting God more, they became less of an impediment to my emotional and mental health. A. Across most of the United States no-fault … Continue reading
Three Choices in a Struggling Marriage
It appears to me that if a person is struggling and unhappy in their marriage they have three primary choices. A. They can continue to act and respond towards their partner as they have been doing and continue to be … Continue reading
Yes, Your Marriage Can Be Saved
I just finished reading “Yes, Your Marriage Can Be Saved” by Joe and Michelle Williams. These two really open up and share their lives and tell it like it is when it comes to marital reconciliation. They each have multiple … Continue reading
How to Overcome Bitterness
I found this to be a great post by Gary Smalley. How To Overcome Bitterness
It IS Possible
Read the blog and then the blog within the blog for new hope. http://www.the-generous-wife.com/2010/05/15/its-possible/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+50%2FITcV+%28Daily+Generous+Wife+Tips%29
Surprises in Waiting
Excellent post by Jerome Daley. This really applies to marriages in crisis. I wish I had grabbed hold of the concept sooner during our separation. http://www.mynewsletterbuilder.com/email/newsletter/1410302051
Giving Up Too Quickly
Over the last several years I have had conversations with quite a few men early in their marriage crises. A typical scenario has often been that when the wife says she is done with the marriage and the man first … Continue reading
Seizing the Moment
As I was very busy planting corn last week, which is unusually early, I got to thinking about the fact that in a struggling marriage a person needs to be ready to seize the moment for reconciliation – which is … Continue reading
Our Marriage is Beyond Hope! Maybe not.
I personally know marriages that have survived adultery, alcoholism, domestic violence, and polar opposite personalities. I also know a marriage that was reconciled after an 11-year divorce when the parties didn’t even know where each other lived. (See their story … Continue reading

