Author Archives: RichWildman

Three Keys for Marital Reconciliation

From my observation and experience there are at least three keys to marital reconciliation. 1. Passionately seeking Jesus and trusting Him to be changing you and your spouse. 2. Realizing that one party to a marriage can make a huge … Continue reading

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Is Love a Decision or a Feeling?

I read many blogs and often come across ones that communicate what I think, but are able to do so much better. Here is a triple good find. Read the main post and then click on the two embedded links. I … Continue reading

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Couple Reunited in the Air!

Here’s a great story about a man and wife who are both in the military. She flies a KC-135 refueling tanker and he flies an F-18 Hornet. They had a chance encounter when her plane refueled his. I see the … Continue reading

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Being Honest With God When You’re in Pain

I thought this was an excellent article by our friend, Jerome Daley. He talks about how respectfully protesting to God about our situations can actually be Biblical, and that King David is one of our examples. http://www.mynewsletterbuilder.com/email/newsletter/1410364001

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Wilkerson Posts About Grace and Hurt

I thought these two posts were very encouraging for those who are in pain from separation or divorce. They reminded of how Jesus met me in my deepest pain during our separation. http://www.worldchallenge.org/en/devotions/2010/all-the-grace-you-need-to-overcome http://www.worldchallenge.org/en/devotions/2010/when-you-hurt

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Jesus, Restorer of Our Marriage

Sometimes I think that I don’t remember to emphasize enough the many ways I sought Jesus during our separation, nor give Him the credit for healing our marriage. Sometimes maybe I make it sound  too easy – like we were … Continue reading

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Getting Real with God

I often tell people who are separated that I radically sought God during our own separation, and I encourage them to do the same because He is the ultimate Healer of relationships. I probably don’t emphasize enough that although much … Continue reading

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McManus Letter to Al and Tipper Gore

I thought this was a passionate but respectful letter to Gores or any other couple thinking of divorcing. http://ethicsandreligion.com/redesignedcolumns/C1502.htm

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If You Loved Me, You Would Give Me a Dissolution

I think Solomon was right about there being nothing new under the sun. This week, within a time span of 24 to 48 hours, I had messages from two men who don’t know each other, who live in completely different … Continue reading

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“The Man I Want to Be” by Chris Young

I often mention seeking God for help in your marriage. This simple song illustrates so well the power of a simple prayer from the heart. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWcs1GmJRQs

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