Category Archives: Separation
Testimony / Intense Emotions
During our separation sometimes I would go from crying to being in a rage within just a few minutes, and sometimes it was from raging to crying. Over time I learned to process these intense emotions with God through worship … Continue reading
Testimony / Libraries
I personally have always enjoyed libraries. During our separation I lived in our RV. I went into our house to work in my office when Sharon wasn’t there. Lots of times I just needed someplace to go that was quiet, … Continue reading
Hope for Separated Men
I just recently came across a Facebook page for separated men connected with Saddleback Church in California. It looks pretty good. Check it out at this link on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/#!/SeparatedMen (need to be signed into Facebook) or here on the … Continue reading
Affair Resources
Marriage Missions International has this post that links to several organizations who have lots of information about affairs. If you are hurting because of an affair, please take time to read the information found here. Things You Need to Know … Continue reading
Testimony / Encouragement Just When Needed
During our separation there were times when God brought some amazing encouragement to me just when I needed it. Once I was at a church in Michigan that was pastored by a friend. At the end of the service they … Continue reading
Testimony/Surviving Down Days
There were days during our separation where I was so down it was hard to function. One thing I found helpful on those days was to speak aloud the Lord’s Prayer and the 23rd Psalm. Usually, a little while later … Continue reading
Testimony/The Hardest Part
I think the hardest part of our separation for me to handle was when Sharon made it clear that she did not want reconciliation, was unwilling to work on being reconciled, and that her plan was to divorce. It was … Continue reading
Testimony/Choosing Wisely Before You Divorce
Somehow, probably through Sharon’s counselor, I heard of a DVD series titled “Choosing Wisely Before You Divorce.” It is a video series with a stark look at what you are facing if you choose to divorce. Ideally a couple watches … Continue reading
Separation/Divorce Resources
This is an excellent compilation of resources about Separation and Divorce from Divorce Care. I highly recommend looking through these if you need help. Personal Help Store
Save My Marriage / Intensives
One thing to consider in a crisis marriage is to invite your spouse to a marriage intensive. There are quite a few of these in different price ranges and different localities with different emphasis. Study them all and pick the … Continue reading
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