Author Archives: RichWildman
Separation/Divorce Resources
This is an excellent compilation of resources about Separation and Divorce from Divorce Care. I highly recommend looking through these if you need help. Personal Help Store
Love and War
John and Stasi Eldredge have a great book and DVD series out called “Love and War: Finding the Marriage You’ve Dreamed Of”. I read the book a while back but Sharon and I are now going through the video series. … Continue reading
Masters Degree in Marriage
I thought this was an excellent post that emphasizes the importance of putting as much time and effort into our marriages as we would a Masters degree, and that the ultimate judge of how well we did in our marriage … Continue reading
Self Nurturing in Marriage or Separation
When we were separated and I did Marriage 911 one of the first lessons was to think of some things that you enjoyed doing by yourself that were not expensive, illegal, or immoral, and then go do them. The principle is … Continue reading
Anniversary of Engagement
I wrote the post below on the week leading up to the anniversary of our engagement in May. Somehow it got lost in draft mode. When I found it again just reading it brought back good memories of our engagement … Continue reading
Save My Marriage / Intensives
One thing to consider in a crisis marriage is to invite your spouse to a marriage intensive. There are quite a few of these in different price ranges and different localities with different emphasis. Study them all and pick the … Continue reading
Love and Cherish Till Death Do Us Part
I have admired Tom Wymore’s openness about his journey with God for many years. He stayed by his wife Jettie’s side through a terminal illness and allowed God to change him in a myriad of ways because of walking through … Continue reading
Our Story: The Condensed Version
From time to time on this blog I have shared parts of our story and how Jesus has worked through us. I want to share a condensed version of it so that it will make more sense in context of … Continue reading
Loving As God Would Have Us
I have often noticed that while there are some specific scriptures about marriage, compared to the size of the Bible the list is relatively small. However, there is much in the Bible about relationships, and marriage is a relationship between two people, … Continue reading
If Only You Want to Improve Your Marriage
I have blogged several times about if you are the only one who wants to improve your marriage. I think this blog post from Jill Savage gives another good perspective on the same topic. Jill Savage – Keeping Hearts at … Continue reading

