Category Archives: Separation
Changing Your Marriage Alone: One Flesh Marriage Testimony
A wonderful blog that I follow at One Flesh Marriage just had a series that gave testimony about how Kate inspired incredible change in her marriage, even when her husband Brad wasn’t on board yet. Here are the posts. Be … Continue reading
Changing Your Marriage by Yourself
If you are in a crisis marriage it is so easy to think that there is nothing you can do if you partner won’t cooperate. One of the first principles to understand is that if you change yourself in a … Continue reading
Separation Crisis – Quickly Finding Resources and Hope in a Bookstore
If you or a friend you know have just begun a separation, especially one that you didn’t want, it is easy to be desperate for information and hope. During our separation I often browsed a book store or library for … Continue reading
Get On With Your Life – NOT
It is quite common if you are separated from your spouse for many friends and family, even Christians, to encourage you to get on with your life, ie. get a divorce and find a new partner, even if your desire … Continue reading
Love and Respect Testimony
This in an wonderful video testimony by a couple who used the principles from the book Love and Respect by Emmerson Eggerichs to restore their marriage. One thing that touched me is when the husband shared that even though he … Continue reading
The Most Important Command Is To Love
When you are in a bad spot in your marriage, or even separated, it is easy to get into all sorts of thinking about such things as: “Does God allow divorce in my situation?” It is possible to read alot … Continue reading
Zig Ziglar Story of Loving Actions
I found the Zig Ziglar story quoted in the blog below to be quite helpful in showing how if you take the Bible seriously it doesn’t give you any outs for not loving your spouse Love Through Actions
Long Term Consequences of Divorce
Especially if a couple has children when they divorce there are a lot of long term consequences to divorce. I have observed the awkwardness and uneasiness of parents and children at such things as graduations, weddings, and funerals where there … Continue reading
That Voice
This post is worth sharing. Let it sink deeply into your mind and heart. To hope against all hope. That Voice
Long Shots
As I watch politics, sports, and business stories it is always amazing how some people come out of nowhere when no one thought they had a chance. I recently watched an Ohio State/Nebraska football came where Nebraska was down by … Continue reading
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