Author Archives: RichWildman

Multiple Marriages/Attraction of Marriage

I was just looking on the web at some “Where are they now?” pictures and posts about a few famous actors and actresses. Many are on their third and fourth marriages. What is amazing to me is that they even … Continue reading

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Loving Your Wife Like Christ Loved The Church

In Ephesians 5:25-33 Paul tells us: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her … Continue reading

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Hopelessness

If you are in a marriage where you want to save it and your spouse wants out it is easy to feel hopeless. Usually your spouse wants out because they are feeling hopeless of things ever improving. Jesus is ultimately … Continue reading

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Adultery Wake Up Call

God’s Word says, “Thou shall not commit adultery” (Exodus 20:14). So often it is easy to think that God wants to prevent fun but His commands are for our protection. As I read about Tiger Woods I try to put … Continue reading

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Love Dare at K-Love

K-Love is doing “The Love Dare” from now until Valentine’s Day. It’s a great opportunity to bless your spouse,  if you’ve missed doing “The Love Dare” before with a group of people. For more information click http://www.klove.com/BLOG/. //

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“Maybe someone different would have been better.” – NOT!

Back in my early 20’s when I was wanting to be married I made a list of three or four women that I had seriously dated and then made a chart of their common character qualities. Some of the qualities … Continue reading

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Reconciliation is Sometimes a Long Process

Sharon and I were separated 16 months and have been back together just over five years. While our initial reconciliation came relatively fast (we were barely speaking the 1st of October 2004, went to a PAIRS training October 9 which … Continue reading

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24 Hour Prayer and Worship

The International House of Prayer in Kansas City, Missouri, has worship and prayer 24 hours per day. They now have free live web streaming from their prayer room. Go to http://www.ihop.org and click on The Prayer Room. Be forewarned: There … Continue reading

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“Love and War” by Eldredges (Book Review)

I just finished reading “Love and War” by John and Stasi Eldredge. It’s an awesome book that gives you a lot to think about. If you were hoping for 10 steps to live blissfully ever after, this isn’t the book. … Continue reading

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Carville and Matalin on Marriage

I often hear couples talk about being so different. In my book that doesn’t mean you can’t be happily married. This little clip is of James Carville, who was instrumental in the Clinton  administration, and Mary Matalin, who was very … Continue reading

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