Tag Archives: Separation

Marriage Reconciliation Testimony

I thought this testimony from Rejoice Ministries did a great job of sharing  the real life ups and downs of reconciliation and how persistence can payoff. In the article that follows, Tina shares her story of standing. After ten years … Continue reading

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Reaches out in desperation . . . then done

Often times when I write emails I happen to come across names in my contact list that I remember as having contacted me in a desperate attempt to save their marriage. I’ll remember one  or two phone calls or emails … Continue reading

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Divorced and Remarried

Here are several links to websites for couples who were divorced and remarried. Think long and hard before getting divorced. God might surprise you and put you back together. Reflections of a Ragamuffin Inverse Ministries Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs Rejoice … Continue reading

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So, You Think You’re More Spiritual?

Are you in a conflicted marriage? Are you looking at your spouse and thinking thoughts like, I read and know my Bible more than my partner. I pray more than my partner. I go to church more than my partner. … Continue reading

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Divorce Waiting Period

I know some states impose a waiting period for getting a divorce. My encouragement is that if you are in a state with a waiting period and your spouse wants out of your marriage, take that waiting period and make … Continue reading

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Speech to Struggling Couples

Lots of times I am not very articulate in a tense situation so maybe if I practice here I will be ready at the appropriate time. Sometimes when I have had a struggling couple come to me who are still … Continue reading

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If You Loved Me, You Would Give Me a Dissolution

I think Solomon was right about there being nothing new under the sun. This week, within a time span of 24 to 48 hours, I had messages from two men who don’t know each other, who live in completely different … Continue reading

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I don’t do “separation with the possibility of divorce” very well

I  have shared bits and pieces of our separation on this blog.  We have plans to share more of our story in a book sometime.  Part of the struggle with writing our story is that if we are honest enough … Continue reading

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Tough Facts for the Separated

Early in our separation I learned some facts that were tough to accept, but once I started trusting God more, they became less of an impediment to my emotional and mental health. A.  Across most of the United States no-fault … Continue reading

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